People hate themselves because few have ever felt truly loved for themselves as children. sadly, as a result we cannot help but hold hatred inside ourselves for others. Race is irrelevant. We just have not learned to meet the needs of our own children and until we do we will continue to do untold harm onto others in an never ending cycle through war, crime and and our own selfish unmet needs. The better we can truly love our children then the more they will be able to give to their own. It's all about evolution stemming from the violent beginnings of our species.