There is power in giving and ability to redirect the mind set of people. depending on the motive of the donor, if it is for real charity, then it is in order. But if the motive is conditional, then i call the giver and the gift 'A REAL DESTROYER' because by that act the person at the receiving end becomes somewhat a robot that must respond to the direction of the he who sidelines his liberty by the act of coded donation, gift, bounties etc.